Dear Yashika,
Do not give up when you do not score high in the exams, as long as you are focused on your future,
Do not give up when you do not have the luxuries that your friends have,as long as you have gratitude for your own life,
Do not give up when your dreams are crushed,as long as you dream numerous more,
Do not give up when I deny your request,as long as you understand and trust me,
Do not ever give up my child, for your life is like a butterfly emerging out of the chrysalis….
How?
When a butterfly finally comes out of the chrysalis it has undergone complete transformation i.e. it has changed from a caterpillar into a butterfly.It slowly stretches its wings and adapts to the new surroundings. Upon realising the true potential of its wings and trusting itself ,it soars high into the sky.
Your life my child is also the same. You will blossom and shine at the right moment.
But first you have to believe in yourself.
“How can I know who I am, until I find out who I was?” Jack Frost.
In the movie Kung Fu Panda,Po,a panda was chosen to undertake a heroic mission even though he was everything but a warrior. Po received a Dragon scroll that was supposed to turn him into a Dragon Warrior. On opening the scroll he found nothing but a golden, reflective surface that was completely blank, but it reflected his face. This was the secret to his “limitless power”.
Hrithik Roshan stammered as a child and due to it had low confidence. He took speech therapy classes and overcame his disability. Today he is a renowned Bollywood superstar.
How did both of them achieve success?
It was because they believed in the power within and never gave up.
Continue to make persistent efforts and you will eventually win in life. You will be amazed to see what you can achieve. You have immense and unlimited potential.
May you be blessed with wisdom, courage and confidence. May you soar high in the sky.
Always dream and try to be better than yourself each day.
Break the suffocating shackles and win in life.
Lots of love my heartbeat,
Bua
This post is part of #childrensday blog train hosted by www.prernawahi.com and www.vartikasdiary.com
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Nice advice Pasheema. Believing ourselves is important before trying anything.
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Thank you Ramya..
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A very nice advice as sometimes kids fear and stop believing, we need to support there dreams and never let them stop dreaming.
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Yes,you are right they need our support.Thanks for your lovely insight..
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Beautiful. How beautifully you compared your child to a butterfly. I truly believe that children are like butterflies-unique, special. They. have their own potential and strengths. And as a parent it is our responsibility to let them find their interests and encourage them all the time. After all we all learn from making mistakes. But one should never stop dreaming. Thats howler thoughts are made and later take a bigger shape. lovely post!!
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Thank you Alpana Deo😍Your comment was so heartfelt and touching. Yes,children are waiting to turn into lovely butterflies at the right moment,as long as we shower them with love,care and healthy guidance.
Let us build lives that are confident to dream 😘
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An aunt’s love is unparallel. This letter reflects that love and care. You gave Yashika, the resilient spirit. Your words, when she is grown up and reads, would push her to achieve more and discover herself.
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Thanks a lot for your lovely words😍 Hope to see Yashika shining in life..Waiting for her to grow up and read my letter😊Your posts are amazing..Will be reading them intensely soon..
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Wow loved it and especially the end of post had made me surprised, I also have a little niece and your post has inspired me to write something for her. You had expressed your emotions beautifully.
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Thank you so much..Every child is a delight 😍Please do write a letter to her would love to read it..
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Wow. That is pure love and beautiful advise from bua. We have to support them to dream and not let them lose confidence because of their fears or shortcomings.
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Thank you so much.. Loved reading your blog😊😍 We can help turn our children into strong and compassionate citizens..
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Super positive write up from a bua to her niece, for one thing I am sure she will certainly feel an immense power of self belief and confidence, whenever your niece get a chance to read your letter.
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Thanks a lot Archana for your lovely encouragement.. 😊Waiting for her to grow up and read it.. Hope to give her the best in life..Learning a lot from all of you too😊
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What a write-up. Stay positive and life is yours, no matter what.
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You are right…Thank you so much..😍May each child be blessed with everything.
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This is motivating. Thanks for sharing.
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Thanks a lot for your appreciation 😍
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niece and nephews are as lovely as our own kids, the letter is beautiful. kids need us to understand them and stand with them when they need it. beautiful words.
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Thanks a lot 😊 Each child is a gift of God. As parents or relatives we can help them blossom into good individuals..
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U just mentioned my favourite movie Kunfu panda…and what a nice way to make the kids realise their worth. It is a heart warming letter and once my kid steps into the teens, i will definitely make him read this one.Looking forward to read more from u. 🙂
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Thank you so much Supriti.Hope your kid likes it when he will read it. May he turn into a confident individual.Hope to pen more of these..Thanks..
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Awww.. your niece is really lucky to have you for a good piece of advice always… So true we need to tell our kids that It’s ok and that we are always there. I will read this out to my daughter too.
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Thanks a lot Aakanksha.It gives me immense pleasure that you plan to share my letter with your daughter.Would love to know her thoughts.It is essential for us to be always there for our kids.
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What a sweet message by a bua to her darling niece,,Wonderful.. I have always loved the butterfly example. It is teh natures way of showing us to be strong in life because only if we undergo struggles do we achieve success in life,
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Thanks a lot Anjali for liking it..Yes,nature is a great teacher and struggles help us to grow.😊
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Your niece is surely going to love your letter. It is full of love & care. Telling kids to believe in themselves is the best advice you can ever give. 🙂
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Thank you so much Disha for your lovely words 😘
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Loved it. You have delivered a message with the right amount of motivation to help child come out of useless fears.
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Thanks a lot Aditi..😊Children need our love,care,guidance and motivation always..
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Tapping your potential and recognising your capabilities…perfect advice for the kids. the example of kung fu panda is just so apt. lovely blog Pashmeena.
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Thank you so much for your lovely words..Made my day..😍😍
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Loved this message or the letter I passed on to Ur child, definitelywoeth reading n understanding letting her know all the walks of life..
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After all each child is special..Thank you so much for reading it.😍
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awww loved reading it! its beautiful!
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Thank you soooo much for enjoying it😍
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Well said Pashmeena. The power to achieve anything in life, lies within us. The best advice to give to any child.
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Thank you so much for your appreciation.😍
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Wisdom, courage and confidence… these three words take the cake in this heartfelt post. Beautifully penned.
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Thank you so much Surbhi for loving it..😍
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you have explained it so well. Emotions flow throughout the letter. The best advice that I would also like to give to kids.
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Thank you so much for your appreciation 😍
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Lovely post and loved the way you penned. Totally heartfelt. It is difficult to convey many a times what we feel. You have conveyed it really well.
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Thanks a lot for your heartfelt comments 😍
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Such a meaningful and touching letter this is, it’s reallu important to motivate our children every now and then in the right way.
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You are right 😍Thank you so much for enjoying it..
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Your blog was lovely😍.. But was unable to find the comment box..
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How beautiful and yes aunts are a blessing. Loved the way you have written the letter. Very true.
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Thank you Rashi for appreciating it.😊
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Its a inspiring writeup & yes i am going to read this again in front of my son. Very beautifully done.
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Thank you do much😊I would love to hear his response.
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Highly inspiring. Not only for children but moms too. Saved it for my future readings on those “feeling low” days
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Thank you so much Vandana,you made my day 😊😍Hope it provides you with solace when you need it.. 😊
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Your post is highly positive, Pashmeena not just applicable for children, but us adults too. Brilliant! #childrensday
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Thanks a lot Tina for appreciating it..😊😍
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This is so motivating. I’m sure they would draw inspiration.
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Thank you so much😍
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This is sound advice and I loved the positive tone of your post. The movie references made it so relatable. In fact myson and I love watching kung fu panda together and discuss these points often. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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